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“Taking Action vs. Contemplating Action”

“Taking Action vs. Contemplating Action”



There are two ways to deal with change.  One is taking action and trying something new and different, sure to produce an outcome and the other is inaction, resulting in things staying status quo; or essentially the same.


Taking action has to be enacted when one is fed up with the way things are to the point they are willing to do things differently.  No one can want it for you, as you’re the one who needs to be ready to do the work.  Inaction is ultimately more frightening, leading to frustration and the inability to change and grow. Inaction is like a paralyzed state of being. Most of the time inaction is a way of saying “I’m not ready to change.”


At Balanced Habits we understand how difficult it is to take that first step.  Asking for help can be difficult.
“I should know how to do this,
what’s wrong with me?”
We believe that asking for help is actually a sign of strength that you are ready for the support of an expert and you are acting on it vs. contemplating it. That’s the sign of someone strong and ready to grow.


I encourage you to take action today by scheduling a Discovery Call, using this link, with one of our Expert Food Coaches to support you to reach the goals you have for yourself. Get a customized road map for your nutrition that is simple, sustainable and just makes sense.


Carolyn Fetters of Balanced Habits, LLC


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Is There Such a Thing as WILLPOWER?

Is There Such a Thing as WILLPOWER?



Lately lots of folks have been asking me if I believe in willpower.  I hadn’t given much thought to this, until recently.  When people suggest that I must have incredible willpower, my response has always been the same.  No, I have incredible commitment to my goals.  Same thing?

Last week I suggested you identify your “why.” I did so because it is my belief that when you have this in mind, the commitment to your goals takes on a deeper meaning.  Is this willpower?  I don’t think so.

I recently read a great article by Jessica Gross. She is a NY based writer who was delving into the studies of researcher Brian Wansink and the notion that eating well and willpower do not go hand-in-hand.  You may have heard of Mr. Wansink.  He authored a book called Slim by Design.  Please take a minute to read this article/study.

What is clear is that willpower has nothing to do with eating right.  We are motivated by our environment, and our peers and we make decisions based on these factors.  You’ve heard the saying “don’t eat with your eyes.”  That is exactly what Mr. Wansink uncovers in this research project.

I think we all intuitively know strategies to not have to make constant choices about how much or what we eat but how well do we do with implementing these strategies?  In example, opaque containers, no cookies jars on the counter, smaller plates…things that don’t require “willpower,” or in truth, making a choice to eat it or not to eat it.  Lessening the chances of indulging in a sense.

Now that you have identified your “why,” and are aware that willpower has nothing to do with losing weight, the next step is to identify what your goals mean to you and how committed you are to reaching them.  On a scale of 1 – 10, how committed are you to x?  Remember please to remove trying to be perfect from the equation.  Perfection has nothing to do with commitments.

You could say that your why now has momentum to take you to the next stage of your journey, or whatever it is that you are committed to.

If you feel you would benefit from having a Food Coach support you with your journey, we have someone waiting and willing to work with you on that.  We have a plan for you and believe that everyone needs a plan (designed exclusively for them) to forge a new path to success.

Get into touch with us now that you’ve identified your why and your goal and let us devise a plan to help you stay committed to the journey.


Carolyn Fetters of Balanced Habits, LLC


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What Does Being Healthy Mean?

What Does Being Healthy Mean?



This is a totally subjective question and as they say “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

I did find a super cool video though that shows the how cultures are in a sense responsible for their unique ideal female body type. It’s a fun watch.

Let’s uncover a little deeper conversation regarding female bodies than just from a visual perspective.


The trend these days is body acceptance and “skinny is out, strong is in” way of thinking.  Gotta love that.  But lets dig deeper to what “healthy” is, and this can get controversial. “Healthy” means different things to different people.  Here are three different versions of women I found when I Googled “healthy female images.”

When you look at these three images, which one looks healthy to you? All of them? One or none of them? The truth is, it doesn’t matter.  We always remind our Balanced Habits LIFE clients, that it’s ok to want to get better, but to be happy where you are in the moment matters more.


However, at Balanced Habits, we believe that being healthy should mean from every angle. Actual health of the body, level of fitness and health of the emotional state.  That’s a healthy person. Health isn’t a “look.”


Health = wealth of all things important in life. The goal to lose weight likely is present, but the perspective as to WHY you want to lose weight can shift for a higher purpose.  When I stopped trying to be skinny (in my early 30’s), my life took a massive shift to a much more accepting and loving perspective.

There is a great book called The Shift, by Tory Johnson. Check it out!  Ms. Johnson uncovers the mental state when it finally “shifts” into a direction that you are ready to take.

What is the quality of your life worth to you?  How committed are you to reaching your goals? Until you can give yourself a “10,” you’re not fully committed. Keep digging. How healthy are you from all the angles I mentioned? If you feel you can benefit from a coach, we’re here to support you.

Get into touch with us now that you’ve got a stronger reason to.  Our BH LIFE Program is offered virtually in 3, 6 or 12 month terms, depending on what needs to be accomplished and the amount of support you’re looking for with your Food Coach.


Carolyn Fetters of Balanced Habits, LLC


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The Safe and Healthy Way to Lose Weight as You Age

The Safe and Healthy Way to Lose Weight as You Age


        As we age, you might be among older adults who have gained weight over the years, and may feel like it’s time to create change and shed those unwanted pounds. Of course this issue is compounded by “life,”& such as work, raising a family, and all the other obligations we have throughout most of adulthood. It’s easy to fall into the habit of putting off exercise and eating right. However, it’s never too late to create positive and meaningful change. The trick is to make sure to do it safely because as frustrating as it is, your body’s needs are different from when you were younger. Small, incremental changes add up to bigger and more meaningful change over time if consistent with your efforts. Practice makes better and better might add more quality years to your life. 

Why Lose Weight Now?

If you’re on the fence about whether it’s worth it to try losing weight later in life, it may help to know just how much better it can make you feel. Exercising and eating right gives you more energy, no matter your age, and increased strength and flexibility give you the ability to continue doing the things you enjoy longer. Regular exercise is great for your brain, too! Exercise boosts brain function in general and can help prevent memory loss. Older adults are also more likely to suffer from depression than the rest of the population, and exercise is an excellent way to fight it. Experiencing loss and isolation is more common as you get older, and this is a risk factor for depression, but exercising is a healthy way to meet new people and rebuild your support system. The link between exercise and depression is also physiological. According to CNN, people who are depressed have lower levels of two key neurotransmitters in the brain, but exercise raises these levels to fight off depression.

How Do You Lose Weight Safely?

Diet Right – Consult your physician before starting a new weight-loss program to be sure that you will be meeting your body’s nutritional needs. Find out about any possible medication interactions, too, especially if you use weight-loss supplements or other diet foods that are highly processed.

Two of the biggest concerns older people face are muscle and bone loss, so your diet should include plenty of lean protein, calcium, and vitamin D to help strengthen bones and build muscle. For many older adults, swapping meals high in carbs for meals high in protein and vegetables is an ideal healthy diet. Practicing portion control is another healthy way to cut back on calories without losing the nutrition you need. Be sure to drink plenty of water as part of a balanced diet and exercise plan, too. According to Prevention, it’s normal to experience thirst desensitization as we age, which means you may not feel thirsty even though you still need to stay hydrated. Water is necessary for digestion and metabolism, so find ways to remind yourself to drink plenty.

Exercise for Your Body’s Needs – When you start a new exercise routine, it’s important to stay within your limits so you don’t get injured. If you have achy joints or any old injuries, be mindful of those and choose exercises that won’t stress them. Swimming and cycling are two low-impact exercises that are easy on your joints and bones. Walking is one of the best all-around exercises you can do, and it’s easy to start at a pace and distance that works for you. Keep in mind that stretching is just as important as aerobic and strength exercises because it increases flexibility and gives you a greater range of motion. Strength training is a key component for weight loss, too, so don’t limit your routine to cardio. In addition to helping you lose weight, resistance training is also good for your bones and muscles, so it’s a win-win. In fact, strength training as an older adult results in far greater benefits than when you were younger. The impact of strengthening muscles, ligaments, and tendons could possibly prevent falls, as well as bone fractures/breaks. Start small and then increase weight gradually as the amount you’re doing becomes too easy. Your weight-loss results may happen a little slower than they do for those who are younger, so don’t get discouraged. Find ways to make exercising bring joy to your life, such as joining a group class at a local community center, so you get accustomed to the activity and the social involvement. Once you get into a routine of eating right and exercising, your increased energy and better health will help keep you going.

Kevin Wells of
Written for Balanced Habits, LLC

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Nicole, you’re awesome! Thanks for your focused effort and congratulations for kicking butt in the KICK START!

“My fitness story didn’t involve overcoming some huge personal hurdle – I don’t recall any major wake-up call moment that made me decide to overhaul my life. It was a very gradual decision. As a busy full-time working mom, I was just tired of being tired, and tired of making excuses. I wanted significant improvement in my health, physique and overall happiness. I had been dismissing red flag symptoms (weight gain, migraines, knee pain, insomnia), chalking them all up to “just getting older.” I went to doctors looking for quick fixes for my ailments: magic pills to make me look and feel better. I started to acknowledge that I may need a lifestyle change in order to see the improvements I so desperately wanted.